IT IS MUSTAḤABB for the husband, when speaking to any of his wife’s relatives, not to use words that mention intercourse, kissing, embracing or any kind of [physical] pleasure. He should also not say anything that alludes to it or could be construed to mean it.
We relate in the Ṣaḥīḥs of al-Bukhārī and Muslim that ‘Alī
said: “I used to have a lot of pre-seminal discharge and I was shy to ask the Messenger of Allah
about it because of the status of his daughter with me, so I told al-Miqdād and he asked him.” [1].
References
[1] Al-Bukhārī (269), Muslim (303), al-Muwaṭṭa’ (1/40), Abū Dāwūd (206), at-Tirmidhī (114), and an-Nasā’ī (1/96–97).